More About Me & Why I Am Writing This Blog

This blog has 3 main purposes..
Mainly to help others, to gather my thoughts & efforts all in one place, but also to serve as a document or a "diary" of sorts to remember everything that I went through and so my future son or daughter can see how much I love them even before they existed. Although they do already exist don't they..? In our heads and in our hearts.. I picture Anthony (mostly it's Anthony but sometimes it's Isabella) just sitting up there on a cloud waiting for me.. thinking "Mommy why aren't you ready yet..??"

I'm also trying to simplify everything.. to get rid of the clutter in my life, the clutter in my house, and the "digital" clutter in my e-mail & computers so that I can get rid of the clutter in my mind.